The responsibility changes you. It has to. You start thinking differently about what you're willing to let escalate and what you're just going to let go and the answer almost every time is that you let it go. Some guy cuts you off and you just breathe and keep driving because you already know how high the stakes are and it's not worth a single second of your energy.
The person carrying should be the calmest person in every room, that's not a rule somebody made up. It's just what the responsibility asks of you.
The person carrying should be the calmest person in every room, that's not a rule somebody made up. It's just what the responsibility asks of you.